look i’m a Man and i know the mentality of MEN. i know their Frame of Mind. A girl on a DATE who shows cleavage and shows skin up to her Pelvis is screaming take me for Casual, im your Playground and have fun with me. But infact that’s not the girl’s intentions at all; she infact wanted a SINCERE…
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look i’m a Man and i know the mentality of MEN. i know their Frame of Mind. A girl on a DATE who shows cleavage and shows skin up to her Pelvis is screaming take me for Casual, im your Playground and have fun with me. But infact that’s not the girl’s intentions at all; she infact wanted a SINCERE RELATIONSHIP. When you talk to her 6 months later or a year later crying with Maskin analyzer olayscara running down her face. Confused as to why her Boyfriend left her ?? It goes back to again the 1st Impressions of the Man on those first 4 or 5 dates. The way she dressed and the implicit message she sent to that Man. She marketed her **** , her legs or her azz and she got herself a Buyer. Very Natural. She got herself a Man who will take her for casual despite all the sweet lovely things she says to her Man it goes back to ACTIONS . Dignity, Honor, Self-Respect. And for *MEN* a large part of that goes to the way she dresses and how she carries herself. I’m not saying Don’t have Sex with your Date. But don’t put out on the 4th or 5th date. Give it 2 weeks IF YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP !!!!

WHY DO YOU GIRLS SHOW SO MUCH SKIN AND PUT OUT WITHIN A WEEK WHEN YOU WANT A REAL SINCERE RELATIONSHIP ???? DO YOU GIRLS JUST LOVE TO SET YOURSELF UP FOR A HEARTBREAK 9 MONTHS DOWN THE LINE ??????????

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Maikang Some girls like to dress a certain way, though fashion is not the issue I hope.
This reminds me of the argument for the hijab that claims it’s worn to hide certain features because they drive men wild with lust…surely you’re not that weak that a little ankle jumps your engine?
Not all guys are like you, but to face facts, quite a few of them do jump to images of prostitutes if a girl dresses like she’s advertising herself. That’s okay, a little offensive but okay enough to think. The problem lies in the fact that people are more than what they wear and what they look like so if you’re holding it down as a fact that a girl who wants sex and dresses provocatively on a first date only wants to be a “playground”, that’s as fiercely incorrect as your number of question marks. Obviously it can be true, but that bit of doubt must be worth something, especially when it comes to social situations. If you yourself are looking for a relationship, then it would be up to you to determine how much the doubt is worth.
Secondly, as far as looks go, the first impression is in all actuality pretty dicey. People also change, and 6 months is plenty of time for one to happen. First impressions are lasting impressions in a photograph but with real living people, it’s not so stapled.
Good Luck! 🙂skin analyzer

Maikang Men are from Mars. Women are from venus. First and foremost, men and women don’t think alike. Second, all females are not the same. But no one gives you a book on how to be. A women may do certain things to get a guys approval or disapproval. A women showing up completely covered may be a date to show you she is not interested. While a guy sees this as a respectable woman. Showing up uncovered can mean I like you and I want you to like me. We all do what makes sense to us at the moment to get the result we want. Unfortunately the other party doesn’t always see it the same way..

Women go through several stages in their lives as do men. A women learns at some point that, that is not the message you want to send to a guy you want to stick around. However, men also do learn that just because she shows skin doesn’t mean she was waiting for you to lay her down. It’s all about maturity. Both sexes reach a point where they are comfortable with their sexuality and themselves to have sex in a week’s time and not put much into it. I understand it from a guys (5 brothers) and girls perpective. On the journey to discovery we all mature and this is apart of the process.

the best piece advice i got from someone i dated who broke my heart: Honesty. Since then my dating life changed dramatically. I started being honest with myself and my date about exactly what i was thinking. I didn’t take advantage of their weaknesses, which for a girl is accepting gifts from a man you have no interest in, which is just like a guy laying with a women on dishonest terms knowing he doesn’t want her in that way. I also asked up front what his expectations were, and told him mine, this way everybody knows what they are in for. No black mascara…..LOL….skin analyzer

Maikang That goes both ways dear. Just because it is there you don’t have to accept the invitation if that isn’t what you want. If your looking for a relationship and find someone that is advertising everything she has, tell her honestly, that you saw as much of the outside that you want to right now. Tell her you want to get to know the inside first. Remember, You have just as much invested in the relationship as she does. Tears are tears with or without mascara.skin analyzer

Maikang It’s her right to dress however she wants. There’s nothing bad about the human body. You think that if she dresses provocatively that gives you an EXCUSE to treat her like that’s all she’s good for? Your problem is you are too weak to put your hormones aside and get to know a person while you have some cleavage in front of you. Grow up.skin analyzer

Maikang A woman has a right to dress however she pleases. Your problem is with lack of communication. You ASSUMED that because she dressed the way she did that she didn’t want a relationship. You were wrong. Be a man and learn to communicate instead of holding women to ridiculous standards.skin analyzer

Maikang WOW!!

You hit the nail on the head, brother!!

I believe that the problem is absent fathers. There are far too many girls growing up in single parent homes, where the mom has to be dad and mom. That is not possible, a girl needs a dad to point out to her exactly what you so clearly expressed in your rant. While I don’t agree with everything you say, you do make a very valid point.

Well done!!skin analyzer

Maikang I agree, women who dress like that on the first few dates can indeed be sending the wrong message. And as for women who put out after only a couple of dates, well its a no brainer there not looking for anything long term.skin analyzer

Maikang Git, my friend it is a two fold process in getting guys to respond. We men are physical creatures and if the woman moves in that direction is not saying that she is easy. She may just want to sure up her catch. Most of the time women are not going to show up wearing a long coat to where the guy can’t see anything. She wants to give her best chance of letting him see what he might get. Also, she tells you what she wants and some of us just don’t take the time to give it to her.skin analyzer

Maikang Open a magazine, go to a gossip website, turn on the TV, watch a movie. Now tell me how those women are all dressed. Has that answered your question?skin analyzerMaikang i have c cups and love to show off cleave, I hooked up with this guy and wore reveling cloths but it was 2 months before we had sex, we have been together for three years, but we are older in mid twenties and I think he was more mature about the relationship and that it wasn’t just a bunch of raging hormones in control. I don’t think it’s the way you dress I think it’s your level of maturityskin analyzer

Maikang to be honest i dont know why the put out within a week. but to show skin, they want to attract their date. they want their date to think there “hot” i guess I dunno but what they dont relize that they can still look sexy and cover up too.skin analyzer

Maikang i think most girls do it because they think that men find “sexy” attractive which means more skin = the guy will like her
they only do it to “hook” youskin analyzer

Maikang They are looking for sex.skin analyzer

Maikang Wow.Don’t judge all girls,Some of us are not that easy.skin analyzer