I’m pregnant. My man has the same eye hair and skin color as someone i slept with. And my man is also the only one EVER to get me pregnant. I’m afraid of the worst though. How can i tell who it is without testing. I have no money askin analyzer machine indiand no means of transport. My man and I already have a son so this will be our…
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I’m pregnant. My man has the same eye hair and skin color as someone i slept with. And my man is also the only one EVER to get me pregnant. I’m afraid of the worst though. How can i tell who it is without testing. I have no money and no means of transport. My man and I already have a son so this will be our second. The size of my belly just doesn’t match up to my last period which makes me wonder. So please no disrespectful comments… we all make mistakes and are only human

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Maikang Your man is the only one to EVER get you pregnant? That means nothing. It’s about the men in the past, not this guy you slept with. This guy might have been fertile. You don’t know.

If this isn’t your man’s kid, it’s going to come out. It will be something stupid, like the kid having blue eyes when NO ONE in his family has blue eyes, but the other guy’s mother does. Or the kid has a blood type that doesn’t match this guy. Or the kid has a dimple in his/her chin and those are genetic and don’t run in your man’s family. Or your man is just going to put two-and-two together and figure it out. If the kid is born full term and the dates don’t match, he’s going to know.

But what is it to you? You’re going to love this baby no matter what, and it’s yours no matter what. And frankly, your “man” hasn’t married you anyway. So what does it matter?

But you’re going to be looking over your shoulder for the rest of your life, waiting for someone to figure it out.

However, if you had sex with the other guy before your last period, then you’re safe. A period erases whatever happened before it. I hope for your sake that’s the case. You might not have transport, but your man does and he can go to any pharmacy and get a DNA test at any time.skin analyzer

Maikang You can not tell without paternity testing. A child can look very much like one of his/her parents or not at all like them (because they favor the other, or are a mix of both). Sometimes some features can take years to be noticeable.

You can get a paternity test where you mail in the samples and get the results back a few days later. The test is as accurate as the samples you provide (there is no “chain of custody” with the samples as there are with official tests, verifying who provides the sample but if you provide a sample for your child and one of the potential fathers, they can rule that person out or declare that he likely is the father). It is not very expensive. Check out GFILab.comskin analyzer