look i’m a Man and i know the mentality of MEN. i know their Frame of Mind. A girl on a DATE who shows cleavage and shows skin up to her Pelvis is screaming take me for Casual, im your Playground and have fun with me. But infact that’s not the girl’s intentions at all; she infact wanted a Sskin analyzer olayINCERE…
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look i’m a Man and i know the mentality of MEN. i know their Frame of Mind. A girl on a DATE who shows cleavage and shows skin up to her Pelvis is screaming take me for Casual, im your Playground and have fun with me. But infact that’s not the girl’s intentions at all; she infact wanted a SINCERE RELATIONSHIP. When you talk to her 6 months later or a year later crying with Mascara running down her face. Confused as to why her Boyfriend left her ?? It goes back to again the 1st Impressions of the Man on those first 4 or 5 dates. The way she dressed and the implicit message she sent to that Man. She marketed her **** , her legs or her azz and she got herself a Buyer. Very Natural. She got herself a Man who will take her for casual despite all the sweet lovely things she says to her Man it goes back to ACTIONS . Dignity, Honor, Self-Respect. And for *MEN* a large part of that goes to the way she dresses and how she carries herself. I’m not saying Don’t have Sex with your Date. But don’t put out on the 4th or 5th date. Give it 2 weeks IF YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP !!!!

WHY DO YOU GIRLS SHOW SO MUCH SKIN AND PUT OUT WITHIN A WEEK WHEN YOU WANT A REAL SINCERE RELATIONSHIP ???? DO YOU GIRLS JUST LOVE TO SET YOURSELF UP FOR A HEARTBREAK 9 MONTHS DOWN THE LINE ??????????

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Maikang That’s not always true.
Some girls are more comfortable in their skin, and maybe you guys shouldn’t think about sex so much. Just because we show skin doesn’t mean we’re screaming come play with us.
Usually when someone is with a person for six months, you’d think you’d be in a sincere relationship.

Most of the time it’s the guys who aren’t mature enough or ready to get into a long term relationship.
Not that I’m ganging up on you guys cause some girls are crazy and freak out about the littlest things.skin analyzer

Maikang I banged my girlfriend the night I met her. And her t!ts were prominently on display. We live together now. We’re madly in love and doing great

Can you try cramming some more generalizations into one question?

I respect a woman that embraces her sexuality. Is she a sl*t? If the definition of “sl*t” is that she enjoys and has sex, then I guess she’s a sl*t. But, why is that a bad thing? If a guy bangs a girls and then calls her a sl*t, then he’s a hypocrite, because she didn’t do anything he didn’t do. The double standard is BS.

A girl can’t be hot and sexual and be taken seriously? that’s your hang up

EDIT: Munchkin — You make more sense than anyone on here. Thank you, I thought I was alone.

EDIT: And now Angel — Great point Angel, I did notice his douchie pic, but I didn’t even think about the hypocrisy in it.

EDIT: People are making this stuff way more complicated than it is. If a girl is dressed so-called “trashy” and she looks hot to me, I think “she looks hot” and nothing more. If she bangs me, I think “she likes sex, just like me” and nothing more. I don’t judge a girls whole personality on these things. If I did I would have missed out on the most wonderful girl in the world; my girlfriend.

EDIT: Should my girlfriend have “acted” conservative in order to find a “good” man for a relationship. Even though she wasn’t being who she really was, and now he only loves what she’s pretended to be and not who she really is? Or should she have done what she did; which is to be herself until she found the man that could both handle her for her and love her for her; namely me.

Listen to the original question; why do girls show skin if they want a relationship? If you want a realtionship you should not show skin. These are the rantings of an insecure child, not a man.skin analyzer

Maikang Because you assume that all men are assholes like you and they’re not, actually. You give men a bad name, saying those things.

Anyway, who says the girls are looking for a relationship? I never looked for a relationship in my life, any time I was single I was on the prowl for sex and a bit of fun. Sometimes it turned into relationships. In fact, the relationship I’m in now, we had sex BEFORE the first date. And we’ve been together long enough for me to say that, yes, this is more real and sincere than anything I’ve ever known.

And I still show cleavage or legs sometimes when I go out. Why wouldn’t I? It looks damn good, my man appreciates it, and he knows he can trust me – I’m his and no one else’s, even if I’m wearing a mini skirt.skin analyzer

Maikang Ok, I’m way older….I agree with you. Why advertise “Free Sex” if that is not what you are marketing. Unfortunately the fashion and the slavish followers don’t seem to realize that dressing trashy does not indicate modesty, self confidence, or individuality.

Now if a girl were dressed modestly; say jeans and a nice sweater, no escaping boob-age, no slits, no tease of parts availability. Would you even be interested? What if it took more than two weeks to have sex? That is way too early, you don’t even know a person by then.

I find it difficult to tell a girl to dress modestly, when she – like all other girls, wants to attract a guy. Dressy hootchie attracts guys, but as you have pointed out they are setting themselves up for heart break when the are not the hootchie the clothes indicate.skin analyzer

Maikang Uhhhhhhhh totally don’t do that. BUT some girls just have low self esteem. BY THE WAY men don’t help by entertaining this behavior. If you guys wouldn’t be such dogs/beasts and prey on these poor unknowing young ladies, maybe they’d get the hint. Some women simply like to dress that way because they look good. Some find that it gets the attention of men and hopes it’ll keep their attention. Some have not been taught any better. Some just are natural born hoochies. Anyway, it would help if alot of the men in their lives would tell them– in as nice a way as possible– how they feel about their wardrobe. If they take it in, more power to them but if they don’t… they’ll just have to learn the hard way.

I believe men are simple— the are visually stimulated and when they like what they see, they act on it. Some women use this to their advantage and unfortunately it ends up being a disadvantage to them because something is missing out of their equation— like He’ll be even more stimulated if he has to wait and work hard to get the mystery underneath.skin analyzer

Maikang Reality check…YOUR CHOOSING THE WRONG FEMALES. Maybe women who show to much skin is your type…So many guys are interested in what the female looks like…i mean i wont lie looks do matter but umm if anything a personality and a sense of humor is what wins me over. stop going for these promiscuous females your asking for it. get to know them. And the reason why some women put out so early is because they have never had or ever been shown love or affection so they go out looking for it which is so wrong. stop thinking you can get the whole package when it comes to meeting people and being in a long term relationship. when its time to happen it will happen Good Luck!!!skin analyzer

Maikang Guys are confusing. EVen if sex is involved, they never tend to keep it 100%…and even if the girl ends up falling for the guy and does tell the guy, most of the time the guy never have the BALLS to let the girl go. and yeah, maybe the girl should be smart enough to just let the guy go if he doesn’t care about her…but why would the guy keep chasing her and telling her that he cares…???especially if the girl he is having sex with does so many thoughtful things for the guy and does things (not sexual) that other girls don’t do for him…

and not everything rushed turns out bad,….but the key is to be 100% straightforward with one anotherskin analyzer

Maikang Not all men think like you. If a couple dates for 9 months as you say, I doubt the reason they broke up is because of how she dressed on the first date.
Quit being so judgmental.skin analyzer

Maikang well you dated her for 9 months so i dont get it …i mean you took it to a sincere relationship not her …just cuz she put out in the first 4 to 5 dates doesnt mean she wanted to put out for 9 months and then end it …that would be stupid…you got with her cuz she was easy or watever and then it turned into something more…so your the only one to blame here…you got her all into you and then you broke her heart….just cuz she dressed so you could see some of the goods doesnt mean shes begging to get her heart brokenskin analyzer

Maikang You are kidding me, right?

Why do you have a douchebag half-naked picture of yourself on your YAHOO PROFILE? My god, it’s like your screaming at all of us I’M YOUR PLAYGROUND.

This “great husband” material includes you? lmao

My now-boyfriend’s dick was in my mouth within an hour of meeting him. I guarantee you he ain’t leaving THIS “playground” with swiftness and ease.

If my choices are dress how I want and HAVE FUN or dress like a nun and have a relationship with an uptight closet case like you, I’ll take the fun, thanks.skin analyzerMaikang yeah, that’s how I think. But, my boyfriend is the complete opposite. He doesn’t think that girls that dress that way are asking for sex, it’s just that they feel the need to look better and be “attractive” in that way. Honestly, it’s all ridiculous. Maybe she thinks that if she doesn’t do that people won’t like her, but if she doesn’t put out right away guys won’t want to be with her long enough to get to the relationship part.skin analyzer

Maikang Because the media is telling them the way to “get a man” is to dress provocatively. Men’s behavior and actions often tell women that what the media is telling them is true.

Example: A man is at a party and sees two young women. One is showing skin and the other is dressed modestly. Which one is he going to flirt up and ask out? skin analyzer

Maikang You sound like a pig.Did you ever stop to think maybe she just wants to impress you and you be impressed by how many looks she gets?As for the sex thing I do understand that.Guys do respect a girl who holds off for a while but in reality the guys usually getting some on the side to satisfy his selfish needs until he gets it from the one girl.The whole dating scene is so confusing.skin analyzer

Maikang I have no Idea!
I went out with this one girl last week and she was wearing an outfit way more revealing than anything she ever wore when we hung out.
It was kind of awkward.

I totally believe that a girl can look good and “fashion forward” without looking like a S L U T.
It irks me!skin analyzer

Maikang “because guys are the most confusing things in the world”

Anyone else believe that, raise your hand! cuz I dont.
Girls say they want a chase, then when we do, were acting too needy.
So we back off, and then were not interested.
You say you want a sweet guy that loves you for you, then you fall for the asshole who treats you like ****.skin analyzer

Maikang I think it has a lot to do with the fact that some girls don’t know how to use their personality to get a man, which is what she should be doing.skin analyzer

Maikang We like sex just as much as guys and we want it whenever guys want it =]

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Maikang they wanna feel beautiful… are you Fing dumb???
it doesnt matter how beautiful they know they are, women will ALWAYS want to be wanted.. NO MATTER WHAT

that doesnt mean they want to get hit on by a flock of drooling dumbasses like you, it just means they that knowledge that guys think theyre gorgeous..

please. correct me if im wrong 🙂skin analyzer

Maikang Then her friends start saying that your a pig and tell all their friends to stay clear. Im right there with you buddy.skin analyzerMaikang I would never have a long term relationship with a woman who was too frigid. If she doesn’t put out within a week, then she’s not girlfriend material. You have it all ***-backwards.skin analyzer

Maikang because guys are the most confusing things in the world, if we dont show skin were ugly or prude if we do were sluts as you can see we are often comfused,.skin analyzer

Maikang only girls who are idiots act like that. i see your point though. its true, see it all the time and they just dont get it. so stop stressing.skin analyzer

Maikang men are not confusing…..next if willing to wait then the guy likes you.
if not he doesn’t.skin analyzer

Maikang i think that they show skin to attract men and cause they think there not prettyskin analyzer

Maikang why do guys want sex so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stop wanted it and we wont show anyskin analyzer